Revelations on relationships. It has been a long time since I have been in one.

My head has been pretty singular for about ten years+.
A rarity to be content as one.
Things change.
And here I am. Which I must gloat again, Things with my partner in crime are more then fabulous and I am lucky to have someone as exceptional as him, feel the same about me.
I realized this morning a weird thing that happens to ones brain when we become a coupling. I find we start anticipating some future change or perceived "growth" or "progression" of said relationship into "more".
Although it is always good to want to be better or this more we think of..... Does this not ultimately take us out of the now?
I think it might. Because I remember this feeling from past lives and being the old dog I am, I actually can learn new tricks.
Today I realized an inner change that needs tweaking and it is as simple as that.
Today I truly will be appreciating, loving and living in the moments that are now.
Not in the future. Not in the past.
I would ask you to wish me luck, but I don't think I'll need it.